dyketw:

things lesbians are not obligated to do:
– be open to men
– be “fluid”
– care about men
– censor their disliking of men to make men and nonlesbians feel comfortable
– care about m/w relationships
– allow nonlesbians into lesbian specific spaces on the basis of them being “queer”
– politely correct people who appropriate lesbian terms and experiences
– allow nonlesbians to appropriate lesbian terms to make them happy
– put any special emphasis on nonlesbian identities in their social justice
– put special effort towards achieving “solidarity” with nonlesbians
– stop connecting to lesbian identity and other lesbians because it makes nonlesbians uncomfortable or makes other gbt people feel “left out”
– ignore the specific history behind being a lesbian and assimilate into the amalgamated “queer community”
terfs dont rb