ramihackme:

malekbrosinc:

ramihackme:

beth-or-whatever:

ramihackme:

i’ve noticed, talking to a few boys from POF and then my ex, that they REALLY REALLY hate it if you don’t like their interests and are clear about it. they get really fussy or stop replying altogether

like i dont give a fuck if men don’t like what i like but its the end of the world if i dont like theirs

its really a new mind set of mine, i used to be like “oh, maybe i’ll like it for you” back in the day but like now im straight up “no, i don’t like this” cause they always are with MY interests ¯_(ツ)_/¯

But that’s how it works with insecure men! The women they date become an extension of themselves, you have to support their interests to validate them, because they’re so fragile and insecure. But don’t try to learn to much about it, or form any opinions independently of what they’ve told you to think. Because, you know, fake fan girl.

If you have your own interests separate from them, which you absolutely should, they see it as a sign that you’re leaving, you don’t need them any more. Or in reality, you’re not there to hold their hand while they do whatever it is they’re interested in.

^^ yuuup

I’ve noticed that when I’m quiet and listen to men on dates that they really like me. The less I say the more they think I’m down to earth, understanding, and “not like other women” and I actually had a guy who got Furious when I disagreed with him BUT HE KEPT CONTACTING ME and every time it was like a test “Are you going to comply with my demands this time?” If the answer was no, he would insult me. If my feelings weren’t hurt, he would say I had none. Then he would make himself so furious that he Would Never Talk To Me Again but he would in a few months time come back to see if I had learned my lesson about having opinions.

christ,,,,