trapqueenkoopa:

If the thought of not being ‘allowed’ to leash your sub or be leashed in the general public makes you feel robbed of an experience it’s really quite possibly because the attention you get from strangers- the fact that people are seeing and acknowledging your dominance/submission- is part of your excitement.

Literally you need the strangers to see you, that means they are involved without consent.

Stop. If playing in kink-consenting spaces doesn’t make you feel as good, it’s because you get off on forcing strangers to acknowledge you. Your kink is explicitly sexual in nature regardless of whether or not you’re getting off at the time or how many ‘deep’ poems you can write about getting fisted. Kinks cannot be compared to general sexuality, romantic attractions, or religious expression.

Do not. Do kinky shit. In public spaces.