ivoryflames:

the second u equate ur romantic love with admiration and not generosity and acceptance is the second u tell urself that the love will decline quickly once the honeymoon phase ends. admiration will only last so long until u realize what u admired about a person doesn’t run as deep as u thought and u have to deal with the un-admirable parts. be generous and let ur love be moldable so u can begin to deeply understand ur partner in order to take a look into their experiences and be able to forgive them and offer them kindness