like as a cishet ace i find it pretty insensitive when inclusionists claim that straight = heteroromantic AND heterosexual or that aces can’t be straight because like… i’m straight. that’s my identity. and you can’t just rob me of that because i’m ace!!
and as to the whole “cishet aces can be LGBT if they choose” thing… you literally can’t choose to be LGBT?? like that’s not how it works? i’m not LGBT and i don’t appreciate inclusionists stripping away part of my identity to make it seem like i am