transboy-suggestion:

If a trans man wants to wear lacy underwear for their partner, it doesn’t invalidate their gender.

If a trans man decides to take on a more “feminine role” during sex, it doesn’t invalidate their gender.

If a trans man wants to be submissive during sex, it doesn’t invalidate their gender.

And if a trans man is too uncomfortable to have sex because of dysphoria, that doesn’t invalidate their gender, either.

Sex positivity for trans men is important. How you express yourself sexually does not invalidate your gender!