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Being abused in any way or preyed upon is not a relationship goal and I really hope that young girls see that and understand that being groomed is not a goal. if a man comes at you that is extremely older than you go the opposite fucking way if you are teenager reading this right now you 18 19 hell even if you in your early 20s and a man in his 30s or older comes at you move the opposite fucking way. he ain’t nothing but trouble and he sees that you young and he sees that you malleable and he want to take an opportunity to fuck you up mentally and emotionally necause he knows you dont have dating experience or a complete sense of self. he’s going to call you mature or he’s going to compliment you he’s going to say all these flowery complimentary things to you but it’s not true he just wants someone easy to control and who’s not going to call him on his bullshit run if a man ever approaches you like that