firstenchanterorsino:

good sexual representation of trans people is important because not every trans person is the same

some trans men can’t stand being penetrated or having sex without a strap-on due to dysphoria or personal choice. they might only be okay with anal. that’s 100% okay, you don’t have a right to tell a person what they should or shouldn’t be comfortable with during sex.

some trans men love being penetrated and can go without a strap-on. sex might not cause dysphoria, or some trans men might have days where they like one thing and not the other. that’s okay, you don’t have a right to tell them otherwise. 

some trans men might not like sex at all and that’s okay.

terminology differs too. usage of vagina or clit might be okay with one person and not the other. 

all of this can apply to trans women or nb people too in different ways, but i’m not a trans woman which is why i focused more on trans men.

it’s not really for cis people to talk about, police, or try to portray. and cis people sure as hell have no right playing up one extreme, either portraying trans men are ~poor angsty body-hating prudes~ or ~smol femme beans who loves to get his pussy smashed~. one’s harmful to trans people who do enjoy and partake in sex, and the other is straight up fetishization. 

let trans men decide what’s comfortable for them and what should be shown, and if there’s any disagreements, that’s an inter-community issue that cis people cannot comment on! because a trans man drawing porn of trans men will always be different from a cis person doing the same thing, even if it is similar.