like honestly men are constantly expending so much effort to try and trick women into doing or giving things that they don’t want to do or give. whether it’s emotionally manipulating women into sex, trying to trick or scam sex workers into cheap or free sex work, physically assaulting women, or even just doing and saying “the right things” so they don’t have to do housework or provide emotional support at all.
men go through life trying to get women to do things they don’t want to do, for their own personal gain. their default state is manipulation and trickery and exploitation, and MAYBE on the off chance they find a woman they actually give a fuck about will they do something for her out of the kindness of their hearts.