Lesbians who used to date men are not lesser lesbians.
Lesbians who used to sleep with men are not lesser lesbians.
Lesbians who identified under other labels are not lesser lesbians.
This ‘Gold Star’ mentality is just like the kind of bull people push on young women during celibate only education programs. It’s the same as the chewed up gum analogy, that women who have sex are dirty or lesser. No woman is lesser for her sexual history. Stop perpetuating that horrendous and damaging idea. There is no ‘Gold Star’ lesbian because lesbians who have had sexual experiences with men are not lesser, or damaged, or dirty.