normanbates:

hey, quick psa. if someone online outright tells you “do not message me again” and “i can’t talk to you anymore” and/or blocks you, don’t push it. you actually gain more trust by listening to a request to leave me alone. that means you’re allowed one “goodbye”. not “sure but i need to ask you one more question” not “but i have to explain something”. no messaging me again months later like “hey are you still mad about that?” no making a sneaky side blog to talk to me or sending anons. fuck anyone who hurts someone or makes someone feel uncomfortable and won’t leave when asked. that is what makes me hate you.

if i ever decide you can talk to me again, i will explicitly tell you. otherwise stop.

people need to learn boundaries on this website. you’re not the father of my child or some shit there’s no “urgency” to your desire to talk to me. suck it up.