hoseokshauntedhole:

Cishet men don’t know how to feel like men on their own. They rely on everyone around them. That’s why you have so many cishet men of color who don’t mind, and in fact even enjoy, being fetishized. For them simultaneously being toted around like a rich woman’s shih tzu and a sex god (despite being utterly mediocre) is non stop Manhood Validation™️.