lesbugs:

lesbians are allowed to have complicated relationships to gender!

lesbians are allowed to play with gender!

lesbians are allowed to use pronouns or present in ways that are not typically associated with their gender!

lesbians do not have to adhere to the rules of the western gender binary!

the gender binary was not designed for lesbians, we do not fit in it to begin with, and there is nothing inherently binary about being a lesbian!!