I think the “I hate kids” sentiment grew out of: “I hate the pressure placed upon me as a woman to procreate heterosexually” but instead of thinking through this and realizing that this pressure is constructed by the patriarchy to oppress women and that the children themselves in this equation have done nothing wrong, you all turn your anger on to children because you can’t seem to place that it’s not really them that you are frustrated with and hate in the first place, but an oppressive system larger than you as an individual.