sauvamente:

theeonelove:

mainmanblackdynamite:

woodmeat:

scruffsmcgoogle:

Shit. Find what works for you.

I find it weird to disregard intimacy enough to live in whole separate ass homes from your spouse by choice but I don’t have a problem with it. different as hell tho

Different strokes for different folks

THIS! Similar to Oprah and her knowledge that she didn’t need to be married to Love wholly and wholesomely and Shonda Rhimes who adopted three beautiful girls to be the best mommy without having to be the wife this gives me hope. I hope I am love and live as nontraditionally as possible for the person who will come all the way and not just stop because it’s hard.

Honestly this is the healthiest thing I’ve ever heard when it comes to marriage and when it comes to recognizing needs versus wants