it just blows me away when people say like “kink is amoral and apolitical” and “i know the difference between fantasy and reality :)” to defend pedo shit or racist or transphobic shit like. anyone who paid the slightest bit of attention in a highschool “intro to psychology” class would be able to tell you that associating a concept with the reward of sexual pleasure is going to condition you in major ways even if you arent conscious of it