
no but there’s actually a difference
how do they not see it
i’m the girl
It sounds crazy but there is a difference lol
Explain the difference then and I hope it not reliant on semantics
Let me preface it by saying I am fully aware of how absurd it is. I get it. But sometimes, in an attempt to not seem like a bother, you want it to be explicitly stated that your company is wanted. You’ll say “clearly he wants you to come because he just asked”. But “are you coming?” and “I really want you to come”. Sounds entirely different. It in the nuance and yes, the semantics. Also, sometimes it just sounds nice to hear. It’s reassuring.
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Right. “are you coming” can just mean “I need to know now b/c of other plans”.
Yeah you gotta emphasize on some shit like this
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Damn.. She explained that perfectly. Never looked at it like that.
know the difference
If I’m asking you, I want you to come. Otherwise I wouldn’t ask and just wait for you to bring it up…
He clearly asked “Are you coming over”. Pretty sure he wants you to come if he asked.
Your WCW can’t tell from you asking her to come over that you want her company. She expects you to play semantic back and forth games to humour her constant need for reaffirmation. She’s almost 30 and doesn’t see a problem with it.
If you do want her to come over then just answer that question with a yes and dassit. If more questions keep pouring in after the initial “yes” then cancel & throw the whole convo away 🤷🏽