deararchimedes:

effingobsessedwithkyu:

deararchimedes:

i hope some of you know how insensitive it is to analyse chanyeol’s or any idols behaviour like this to imply they’re “next” to add to what you must consider to be for shock value. it’s okay to grieve, it’s okay to care… but this isn’t the way to do it. stop writing essays on why he’s depressed, its so so so so ugly. there’s a difference between an idol coming out and expressing their struggles and you pushing this onto them just because you want something to discuss. 

Be proactive, not presumptive.

Do not superimpose emotions onto other people.

If you’re trying to absolve yourself, by being on the lookout now, of whatever unnecessary guilt you might be feeling because you feel like you didn’t see the signs, take a deep breath and stop. It helps no one. There’s a way to discuss what happened without dragging someone else through this.

^^