lesbiananti:

bugcourse:

being an “anti” isn’t about fanfic anymore it’s literally just being a decent person and recognizing that relationships between adult and children are morally wrong in every scenario whether or not fictional. if u ask literally anyone outside of tumblr if they think it’s fine for someone to “ship” or idealize a relationship between an adult and a minor like 99.9% of ppl will tell u it’s not fucking ok lmfao

also i LOVE when ppl say their ships/cartoons/etc are harmless bc they’re just idealizing the relationship between fictional characters and LOVE to pretend that those actions don’t ,,, actively perpetuate a type of mindset and culture that normalizes relationships like that. ur actions aren’t isolated!!! people see your content!!! children see your content!! pedos see your content!!!! ur fucking gross stop glorifying pedophillic relationship you fucking freaks!!!

and these same people are usually pro-map, so it’s not even just fiction. they literally approve of pedophilia and pedophilic attraction.

yourbigsisnissi:

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.