corntortillaprince:

Best thing you can do as a man is understand on a deep spiritual level that no woman on this earth will ever need you. You are not necessary for the fulfillment of a woman’s life. A woman choosing to have you in her life is a gift, a privilege, that can be revoked at any time and it’s up to you to earn, honor, and maintain that place in that woman’s life. A woman is whole and complete without you and will continue to be whole and complete regardless of her involvement with you. If she wants you in her life, key word “wants”, she is giving you space she’s carved out and is deeming you worthy, so fucking act like it.

sheabutterbitch:

Things you need to stop putting on your face

I’ve seen lot’s of posts on here post about what you shouldn’t put on your face, I’ve studied holistic skin care for a very long time and some of those lists are true…some not so much and are blown out of proportion but overall they never provide insight as to why you shouldn’t use these things. So since I’ve gotten a few asks regarding some DIY skin care methods, I just decided to make this list.

lemon / This is probably the most frustrating one, I see this everywhere as a method to get rid of dark marks and it makes me cringe every time. Lemons are very acidic, with a pH of 2 so they’ll not only irritate your skin but also disrupt the natural pH of the acid mantle. The amount of citric acid varies depending upon the lemon, you never really know exactly how much you’re putting on your face. This can be especially dangerous because there is also phototoxicity there, once your skin makes contact with the sun you could even get a chemical burn.

sugar / Lots of people recommend sugar scrubs as a good exfoliating method and it is…it’s just too abrasive for your face. It creates tiny lacerations in your skin and disrupts your lipid barrier which causes dryness and flakiness. To make it even worse, the destruction of your lipid barrier prolongs the healing process of your skin. Which defeats the purpose of exfoliating because it won’t be soft, it’ll cause more flaky skin and it’ll be terribly dry.

toothpaste / This method is as old as I can remember, people suggest using toothpaste as a spot treatment to put directly on your acne. Toothpaste will rapidly strip your lipid barrier, the pH in toothpaste also affects your acid mantle. Toothpaste also contains lot’s of irritants, everything from sweeteners to whatever it is that causes it to foam up.

baking soda / I seen someone suggest this today… I can’t believe people still do this. Pretty much causes the same problems as the sugar, it’ll affect your pH and then strip your skin of the properties that defend against bacterial infections.

Alternatives
• instead of lemon for dark marks, try aloe vera gel
• instead of sugar or baking soda, try green tea
• instead of toothpaste, try a clay mask

insidiousmoonandry:

unregardless:

being rich would be so much fun, like aside from the obvious stuff, can you imagine going to a restaurant and being able to give your waiter/waitress a $500 tip for like a $40 meal? you could make people’s months without even trying

If only actual rich people thought this way instead of trying to pass shitty ass laws to fuck it up for everyone else

insanelycrazymaro:

A piece of advice to my kpop fans all over the world.

Rules of thumb:

Don’t :

• Ask your idol to show their abs
• Bash your idols for the song that they don’t have control
• Tell your idol they don’t look good without makeup
• Pressure your idol to speak other language
• Rush your idol to make a comeback
• Ask for other members when the said idols are doing vlive or instagram live etc.
• Tell your idol he’s the reason that the group are even born
• Disturb their privacy by stalking them
• Tell them that are being annoying by sharing their feelings
• Tell them to get over it
• Tell them that their feelings are an excuse for them to gain attention.

Do:

• Encourage them to be healthy
• Patiently wait and encourage your idol with warm words when their on hiatus.
• Compliment them for their hardwork.
• Praise them for being comfortable with/without makeup.
• Tell you love them and cherish them every day.
• Tell them to be happy
• Let them date
• Let them eat what they want.
• Protect them again antis by drowning the hate words by praising, complimenting and encouraging.
• Tell them it’s okay to feel sad and cry
• Be there for them
• And lastly do let them do what they want in their live and support them throughtout their journey

socialjusticeichigo:

ace-feminist:

extraordinary-arbiter-bluebird:

Laziness: I’d rather sit here than pick up those clothes

Executive Dysfunction: I need to pick up those clothes I need to pick up those clothes why am I still watching this thing on Netflix while sitting down c’mon stand up I need to pick up those clothes I need to pick up those clothes I need to-

Holy shit you nailed it

Laziness: I don’t want to do the thing so I’m not going to do the thing and I’m not going to worry about it because I don’t care.

Procrastination: I’m purposely putting off doing the thing because I don’t want to do the thing and this may or may not be causing me anxiety depending on how important the thing is.

Executive Dysfunction: I may or may not want to do the thing but regardless I can’t seem to do the thing and it is causing me great anxiety because the thing needs to be done.