wavesoftware:

“real hip-hop” sounds like black people making hip-hop music. you could be the dustiest black emcee and still be realer than any non-black person trying to rap/ create hip-hop.

silasea:

I wonder if people ever think of me in the romantic sense

chanelbabyl:

To all the girls with high standards, don’t lower them in 2018

yuletideyoujin:

What’s funny about cishet kpop fans is y’all will be like “look at this idol breaking gender roles 👏🏾😍“ to try and get people to stan but still get mad if LGBT fans say anyone isn’t straight or cis like sorry broken gender roles mean nothing without unlearning the transphobia, homophobia, and misogyny they’re built on.

miseducatedmelanicmuse:

S/O to all the people gaining the courage to leave unhealthy/toxic relationships, I’m so glad you are making your happiness and mental health a priority.

sleepdontvisit:

Okay, I have a new question. Asexuality is a spectrum, right? But cishet/cis aroace inclusionists think all aces and all aros are LGBT, anywhere on the spectrum.

So… my question is… how much sexual attraction does a cis straight person have to feel to “have straight privilege,” be straight (since cis straight aces “aren’t straight”), and oppress LGBT people?

And why do aces think straight privilege comes from cishet’s sexual attraction to each other rather than their positions as people who do not experience homophobia/biphobia?

I’m sincerely asking this–how much sexual attraction does a person need to experience to not be on the ace spectrum and be “allo” and how much sexual attraction does a cis person who is only attracted to the ‘opposite’ gender have to experience to be a “cishet”?

these questions should be answered by now because they’re fundamental to the core tenets of what the ace community is and who should belong. where does asexuality end? does asexuality have an end if lithrosexuals are considered part of the ace community even though they can experience any levels of sexual attraction, they just don’t want it reciprocated? Hell, some lithrosexuals are FINE with it being reciprocated, they just don’t NEED it to be. how is there an asexual/non-asexual boundary is people who experience sexual attraction but just don’t NEED it reciprocated are considered asexual? who the fuck in the world NEEDS their sexual attraction reciprocated besides sexual abusers?

can a voluntarily celibate person who does feel sexual attraction identify as ace if they want to? Isn’t that essentially what a lithrosexual is anyways? what’s the difference?

what’s the difference between a cupiosexual asexual who is only attracted to the opposite gender and a non-ace straight person who has sex? what’s the difference between a demisexual cis person who is only attracted to the opposite gender who has found a person w/ a close bond, who they are therefore attracted to fairly constantly because they’ve already formed the bond and a cis straight person who feels “normal” amounts of attraction? what about cishet demis who form bonds quickly?

what is asexuality, where does it end, why does it include people who feel sexual attraction but only in certain contexts in or in certain amounts? what is the difference between a cis straight person and a cis person in the ace community who does feel sexual attraction towards only the ‘opposite’ gender “rarely” or “only w/ close bonds” or “doesn’t want to act on it” in terms of material privilege?

how can you say all aces are lgbt but literally anyone and everyone can define themselves as asexual if they use an obscure enough definition, even if they feel sexual attraction?

isn’t that saying every single person in the world can identify as lgbt if they want to?

feelboss:

me: i’m fine

internally: *the tunnel scene from willy wonka*