deararchimedes:

effingobsessedwithkyu:

deararchimedes:

i hope some of you know how insensitive it is to analyse chanyeol’s or any idols behaviour like this to imply they’re “next” to add to what you must consider to be for shock value. it’s okay to grieve, it’s okay to care… but this isn’t the way to do it. stop writing essays on why he’s depressed, its so so so so ugly. there’s a difference between an idol coming out and expressing their struggles and you pushing this onto them just because you want something to discuss. 

Be proactive, not presumptive.

Do not superimpose emotions onto other people.

If you’re trying to absolve yourself, by being on the lookout now, of whatever unnecessary guilt you might be feeling because you feel like you didn’t see the signs, take a deep breath and stop. It helps no one. There’s a way to discuss what happened without dragging someone else through this.

^^

richievichhh:

realmckitten:

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I wish people would be more careful about the comments they make about YG online. He has small children and they don’t deserve to hear those kinds of things about their dad. I’m not defending his behavior, but I’ve seen some really nasty comments about him. You know some of it gets back to his kids, so please be thoughtful.

Okay but YG is a pedophile and a misogynist… Yes don’t involve the kids into his fucked up behavior, but he will always be considered a horrible person.

dermatillorama:

hey just so u know I’m here for the girls who have slept with people who they didn’t like and girls who look back on old hook ups and feel gross. girls who have slept with people because they needed the sexual validation but had bad experiences or wished that thy hadn’t gone near those people. girls who found out how bad the people were after the fact. the character of your hookups doesn’t reflect your character. you’re all wonderful and I’m here for u

fleurites:

angeliic-runes:

give-my-regards-to-broadway:

blossite:

dutchster:

fat-amy-for-president:

albamentum:

drunktrophywife:

being a girl is really fucking expensive

hahahahhhAHAHAHAHhahahahahhahahah WHO IS PAYING FOR YOUR DATES

hahahahhhAHAHAHAHhahahahahhahahah WHO IS PAYING FOR OUR TAMPONS, PADS, ULTRA SOUNDS, PAP SMEARS, OB/GYN VISITS, BRAS, CLOTHES, MAKE UP, HAIR PRODUCTS TO GO ON DATES WITH FUCKERS LIKE YOU?

[cricket sounds]

*drops the mic*

Also who gets paid less to begin with?

WHOMP THERE IT IS

i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again. guys paying for dates is only fair, due to the sheer inequality of preparation costs. y’all don’t gotta spend NEARLY what we do on the things listed above, so you make up for that by paying for the meal or movie tickets or whatever.

the whole “women being strong by paying for their date uwu” concept lacks nuance and is the pinnacle of performative white feminism

outsidermagazine:

Despite being named Time’s Person of Year, Tarana Burke was not included in the iconic TIME cover.

She is the forgotten founder of #MeToo, and though others have gained positive attention through the use of her creation, Tarana Burke remains unacknowledged, unthanked and unrecognized.

Take a moment to celebrate #TaranaBurke and her immense contributions to sexual violence prevention and awareness.

Tarana, thank you for your incredible activism. You have uplifted and healed countless survivors and deserve recognition and applause far greater than what you’ve received.

Let’s give Tarana the thanks and magazine cover she deserves. 

**You can follow Tarana on social media and primarily through her website and personal blog sheslays.com