There’s really women in their 20’s out here molesting little boys and we never talk about it
Like these women will use babysitting as a means to get close to little boys and sexually abuse them and it just goes unacknowledged
Like we barely even acknowledge that when a man says he lost virginity at 8 years old to a woman 12 years his senior he was in fact raped
But these women are still in our communities, with their actions and movements going entirely unchecked, knowing that they’ll never be held accountable for what they did and are likely still doing
!!!!!
Most of the the men I know in life have told me they lost their V card to older women . My boyfriend said he lost his to his ex girlfriends mom in middle school . He said back then he thought he was the man but now that he’s older he realized he pretty much got raped . We don’t talk about female predators as much .
as a child, up until the age of 17, i was sexually abused by my grandfather. upon discovering this fact about me, a question i often here is “why didn’t you tell sooner? why did you wait 17 years?”
and the answer to that is always, i simply didn’t know better. and that is the problem. childhood sexual assault victims often don’t know they are being abused. in fact, their abusers will use tactics such as gaslighting and threats, to keep themselves from being outed.
children often do not have the means to protect themselves or spot a dangerous situation, and as adults, it is our responsibility to watch out for warning signs, and to be conscious of our own actions. it may be an uncomfortable topic to discuss and educate yourself about, but trust me, it is an absolute NIGHTMARE for the children living through it. below are a few resources to get you started.
warning signs of a potentially dangerous adult: (x)(x)
encourages child to keep secrets
insists on physical contact (hugging, kissing, etc) even if child is visibly uncomfortable
will try to make the child feel older (compliment their maturity)
will share personal information and seek consolation from children rather than adults
insists on alone time with children
is overly involved with child’s developing sexualities
gives children toys, money, and other gifts for seemingly no reason
if you are a minor and being sexually abused, the following hotlines are dedicated to helping you:
DARKNESS TO LIGHT HOTLINE: 1-866-367-5444 RAINN: 1-800-656-4673
if you are concerned that a child you know may be in danger of being sexually abused, this is a list of potential warning signs. you can call the following hotline for more advice.
STOP IT NOW: 1-888-PREVENT
if you are in immediate danger, call your local emergency number.
and from what survivor to another: what your abuser did to you is not your fault. as a minor, it is the responsibility of the adult to keep you safe and out of harms way. they failed you. you are not dirty. you are not disgusting. you were hurt in an unfair way. you will make it through this.
Do antis and aphobes who yell about shipping actually give a damn about RL pedophilia culture like super extreme gender specific school dress codes, or parents who don’t let girls wear like tank tops or leggings in the house because it’s “inappropriate” for the father/brothers to see, or parents who think their same sex children don’t get to have boundaries from them because “we’re all boys/girls here,” or parents who tell their daughters “you’re a woman now” the day they get their first period and then treat them as sexually equivalent to a woman even though they’re maybe 10 or 12, or mothers who think they can put their hands up their daughter’s shirt to “stretch it out” or minutely pick over her body sexually “because I just don’t want you to look like rape bait, sweetie"—or is it only if it’s fictional characters in a made up story where half the time what’s going on isn’t nearly that bad anyway?
I wanna throw up in my mouth reading this. First of all, gtfo with this “antis and aphobes” b/s. Secondly, as an actual CSA victim, I can acknowledge that there are pedophiles in fandom spaces that we shouldn’t be enabling AND exposing real life situations that enable those very same pedophiles at the same time!!! I can walk and talk and chew gum, all at the same time!!! Fucking ground breaking!!!
They Freddy Kruegered his ass fuck yeah he deserved that
y’all left out one of the best parts
Please stop using the term pedophile for people who molest and rape kids. These are two different things. He is a child molester, which makes him a pedophile but not all pedophiles actually molest or rape children.
Child molester = pedophile but pedophile == child molester.
I’m glad the parents fucked him up, hopefully he will get prison time for his actions and court mandated therapy for the rest of his life.
hey this sounds like bait but i’ll bite. did you really just say “not all pedophiles”
HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!!
Lady Jace Of The Fae 