onew, you’ve done millions upon millions of good things and people are now choosing to forget all of that because of your one human mistake and i’m so so sorry
He assaulted a woman in a club. His drunkenness is no excuse. Yes, it was a mistake, but that mistake has very real consequences.
I’ve said this before but variants on this line pop up a LOT in fanfiction so it bears repeating
“this is your last chance to say no, if we go any further I won’t be able to stop” is not sweet. it is not romantic or passionate or anything else like that. it is a rape threat.
I saw the movie ‘It’ tonight and one of the characters was clearly being sexually (and probably physically) abused by her father. Now, while it didn’t show him actually abusing her, the implications were very clear and the way he acted towards her was pretty triggering (for me at least)
So if you like scary movies and had planned on seeing that one, please just know what’s coming. I was pretty surprised by it and wish I had been able to mentally prepare beforehand
It’s called coercive reproduction and is punishable by law.
They don’t actually “like” condomless though. What they like is having condomless sex with someone who said no and thinks they are wearing a condom. The pleasure comes from tricking a woman into thinking she’s having protected sex when they’re not. So monsters like him won’t go and find themselves a partner who enjoys condomless sex. That’s no fun. Consent is not fun at all for them. They’ll keep on finding women they can rape instead.
So what they need to do is go shove their face and genitals into a vat of acid. That’s what rapists deserve.
Reblogging mainly for the above commentary because that is spot. Fucking. on.
I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again: Any Pro-Lifer who argues that they just want to ‘save babies’ but makes an exception in rape cases is lying.
If they were truly against abortion because they believe that a fetus is entitled to full rights, enough to deny the bodily autonomy of the person carrying it; if they truly believe that the fetus has a soul and is a baby or however they say it: then they wouldn’t make exceptions for rape.
A pregnancy created through sexual assault would not make that fetus less human. It wouldn’t make it “not a baby.” Being conceived through rape wouldn’t make that fetus not have a soul. Either a fetus has a soul, is a human, is a precious baby, or it isn’t.
What the “rape exception” means is that they want to control women. That women who have consensual sex should be punished, should “have consequences” for having consensual sex, for not being “responsible” enough when they have sex. It says “You are a woman who had consensual sex, and to punish you we will take control of your body away from you.” They HATE that women can have sex for recreation, and want to take that away from us.
You see that bullshit argument? You call them on it. Don’t let the point go. If they make an exception for rape- ask them why. Make them explain the logic. (They know how fucking awful it sounds when they don’t make an exception for rape too. There’s no moral high ground for them there.)
Do antis and aphobes who yell about shipping actually give a damn about RL pedophilia culture like super extreme gender specific school dress codes, or parents who don’t let girls wear like tank tops or leggings in the house because it’s “inappropriate” for the father/brothers to see, or parents who think their same sex children don’t get to have boundaries from them because “we’re all boys/girls here,” or parents who tell their daughters “you’re a woman now” the day they get their first period and then treat them as sexually equivalent to a woman even though they’re maybe 10 or 12, or mothers who think they can put their hands up their daughter’s shirt to “stretch it out” or minutely pick over her body sexually “because I just don’t want you to look like rape bait, sweetie"—or is it only if it’s fictional characters in a made up story where half the time what’s going on isn’t nearly that bad anyway?
I wanna throw up in my mouth reading this. First of all, gtfo with this “antis and aphobes” b/s. Secondly, as an actual CSA victim, I can acknowledge that there are pedophiles in fandom spaces that we shouldn’t be enabling AND exposing real life situations that enable those very same pedophiles at the same time!!! I can walk and talk and chew gum, all at the same time!!! Fucking ground breaking!!!
They Freddy Kruegered his ass fuck yeah he deserved that
y’all left out one of the best parts
Please stop using the term pedophile for people who molest and rape kids. These are two different things. He is a child molester, which makes him a pedophile but not all pedophiles actually molest or rape children.
Child molester = pedophile but pedophile == child molester.
I’m glad the parents fucked him up, hopefully he will get prison time for his actions and court mandated therapy for the rest of his life.
hey this sounds like bait but i’ll bite. did you really just say “not all pedophiles”
HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!! HE’S A PEDOPHILE!!! PEDOPHILES DESERVE TO DIE!!
when “no means no” comes up, you hear guys say “oh, but sometimes girls play hard to get” and like…. i guess, yeah. men & women both can be really bad at being honest about what they want. but just consider your options.
the other person says “no” and means “yes” –> you back down –> they learn
that if they want something, they have to clearly express themselves
they say “no” and mean “no” –> you back down –> you’ve successfully respected their boundaries
👍👌
they say “no” and mean “yes” –> you ignore them –> you’re perpetuating a pattern of bad communication & ignoring boundaries 👎 & given that you aren’t a mind reader, it’s really just luck that you haven’t coerced an unwilling person into sex
they say “no” and mean “no” –> you ignore them –> you’ve committed sexual assault 🚨🚨🚨 do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars
unless you care more about getting laid than not assaulting people, respecting people’s “no”s is a win-win situation. don’t be a potential rapist
Lady Jace Of The Fae 