shownushappytrail:

If an idol does something offensive you have the right to not like them anymore. Doesn’t matter how cute they are, how nice they are, how popular/iconic they are, etc. But way too many of y’all are throwing stones while living in glass houses.

Y’all will be like “people still stan *insert group/idol* when they’ve done xyz? 📝👀☕” but your group/bias did the same shit to a lesser degree. There’s obviously levels to being “problematic” (which is why I hate the word) and a lot of times problematic is used to describe outright racism or misogyny. But at the end of the day everybody has done shit.

There’s not one idol you could come to me with that I can’t give “receipts” for. Stanning groups now has turned into a competition of who has done the least and it’s ugly and tiring. If fans aren’t pretending an idol did nothing wrong or going out their way to defend/invalidate people’s feelings then mind your business.