Having your child pay bills as soon as they’re fresh out of high school and grown is the biggest mistake… idc idc idc… you’re not teaching them nothing but to struggle and settle … teach them how to save , how to do taxes, how to better themselves , support their business ventures, congratulate them on furthering their education . Black parents always ask for money knowing they didn’t provide their child with a trust or college fund lol … stop setting y’all kids up to do the minimum